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Life, Love, & Legacy Retreat

Far too many of us, in our pursuit of success and achievement, end up worn out, tired, overworked, stressed out, battling with life, fighting with others, and dealing with drama or chaos...

Somewhere along the way, you were taught or learned that:

  • through success, achievement, and hard work (be it in business, financial, health, or even relationship) you will find happiness, fulfillment, love, and value.


But unfortunately, this often isn't true.  


  • Hard work doesn't always lead to success.  


  • Success and making a lot of money won't make you happy.  


  • Checking all the boxes, winning the awards, and being recognized as the best by your peers won't ever make you feel good enough…

  • What is the purpose of getting to a Six, Seven, or even Eight Figure life if you are unhappy, unsatisfied, and feeling so much stress and pressure?

  • What is the point of getting married, creating so much joy with another person, having children, and creating a family if not to enjoy time and moments and make memories with them?

  • Why win the award yet be cast out from the community?

  • Why check all the boxes and yet always feel like there is always more to do?


"I'm taking one client on

a 3-day, all-inclusive, mastery performance retreat in Palm Springs, California.  

I can't wait to find out if that client is you!

But let me back up..."


I created The Experience Purpose Method because,


Your life experience is all that matters as it becomes how you feel about your life!


☑️ You can have it all  


☑️ You can conquer your goals 


☑️ You can be a beast around your commitments


☑️ You can even consistently fulfill your metrics, intentions, and accomplish anything


But if at the end of the day the process, the journey, and the actual experience of your life doesn't give you the feeling you want...


What the fuck was the point?

The thing most of us are missing is that the experience is where we start.  The experience is not the output or result of something.  


It's the life's blood, the reason to be doing it in the first place.  


It fuels the fire of our goals, dreams, and the legacy we want to leave.


This is even why I created

Life, Love, & Legacy Retreat!

"I call Alex my Wendy Rhodes!"

"Working with Alex has absolutely changed my life...  


My business has seen it's biggest growth spurt in a long time.  I started working with Alex just Four Months ago and not only has my personal life seen great improvements and my overall daily life become more enjoyable.  But on top of that we have seen a 500% increase in our monthly revenue!"


Gina W.

Tech Business Owner


"I call Alex my Wendy Rhodes!  


I was making a lot of money but I was not fulfilling my duties as a father and a husband.  


Alex has helped me see and put all of it together, how it all synchronizes."


Jory S.

Multi-Brand Franchise Owner


Since 2015, I have coached hundreds of clients to life-changing achievements in wealth, business, leadership, and relationships.  


My favorite people to work with are hungry for transformation, and to create a life they love living and produce successful results at the same time!


They're people whose potential for results is unlimited.  


In my clients own words

Who am I?

I am a Performance & Success Alchemist and Author, a Breaker of Limiting Mental Beliefs, a recovering asshole, a lover of Philosophy, Personal Growth, and Mezcal.  I am the docile tone behind hundreds of podcasts.  Legend has it a former reality tv show villain and was dubbed "The Anti-Excuses Coach" by Yahoo Finance.  Since 2015, I have coached hundreds of successful & influential individuals & businesses to thrive financially, enjoy better relationships, and achieve their stretch goals and deepest desires, all with less stress, drama, and difficulty.

As a Professional Certified Coach & the Founder of DreamMason Inc., I have uniquely combined raw, direct, and bold masculine tactics with a magnetic, playful, and spiritual feminine ease. For my clients as well as myself, I am passionate about and believe Integrity,  Commitment, Vulnerability, Trust, and Faith make up the core of Authenticity, which provides access to living an exceptional life of abundance, love, & joy.


I have worked with athletes, rockstars, seven figure entrepreneurs, executives, & leaders in; LinkedIn, Shutterfly, Godiva, LGYC Power, and Coldwell Banker.  


Through coaching, workshops, and my books, Through coaching, workshops, and my books, I have helped individuals and companies grow their incomes 500% in 90 days, save and rekindle marriages, get published, scale their companies to Six, Seven, and even Eight figures, buy their dream homes, grow their leadership, build successful teams, and create lives they actually love living.

People choose to work with me because achievement and financial success are not creating the rewarding life and business they desire. 

I am the author of Fictional Authenticity, the coauthor of the bestselling book Redefining Masculinity, and the forthcoming book How Dreams Are Built.  I have hosted & appeared in over 400 podcasts including top-rated shows such as The University of Adversity, The Primal BluePrint, Success Unleashed, and have interviewed hundreds of the world's highest-performing, wise, and successful leaders on The DreamMason Podcast.  I have been featured on NBC, FOX, Yahoo Finance, Disrupt Magazine, Thrive Global, and Elephant Journal.


They understand:

  1. here is no amount of money that will fix their relationships, make them feel like enough, 

  2. That no external validation will fill that void inside them that says they are not enough.  

  3. That no amount of hard work, achievement, fame, or distraction will provide the peace, ease, joy, and connection, they want.  

  4. And that the legacy deeply they crave to leave will be measured by these metrics, not their bank statements.

The Details:

In this immersive retreat we’ll dive into:

  • Business Development: 

    • What's working & What's not

    • What mindsets created the issues and challenges you are currently facing?

    • Direct, Bold Feedback

    • ReInvention & Creation

  • Future Success Visioning and Game Planning

  • Full Mindset Reboot

  • Daily Habit Creation and Accountability

  • Relationship & Communication Tools

  • A Wellbeing Reset

  • And we will embrace adventure and have fun!


A 2 night-3 day, 1-on-1 Luxury Mastery Performance Retreat in Palm Springs, CA!    

Flight, Hotel, Food, Coaching, & Activities All Included!

"Working with Alex is like being hugged and punched in the face at the same time!"

Meredith D 

Business Owner


You will experience what it looks like to leave behind the Warrior, the exhausted, stressed out part of you or however you describe it that's always fighting for something, feeling pressure to create something, to fix something, to build something.  You will find and embrace a level of Mastery for yourself, the man you desire to be for your family and the legacy you are creating.  


What are you responsible for:


  • Showing up with an open mind and an open heart

  • Being Coachable; ready to receive new perspectives, and be challenged on your mindsets, behaviors, beliefs, and narratives about yourself and life

  • Completing all deep dive pre-trip trip questionnaires 

  • The all-inclusive retreat is a kickoff to a year of deep dive coaching work together. Applicants should be prepared to invest in themselves and eager to be held through a year of powerful 1:1 coaching.  This is a significant investment and you will be challenged and push harder than you likey ever have before.


  • You or your business must generate a minimum of $250K a year to qualify

  • Must be a Business Owner, Entertainer, Athlete, Entrepreneur, or Executive

  • Must be open to hearing bold, raw, and direct feedback

  • Must have a desire or passion for:

    • A Thriving LIfe & Business

    • Leadership and Communication Growth​

    • Business Performance Exceleration

    • Love & Relationship Ease & Expansion

    • You are craving more:

      • Time Freedom​

      • Decreased Stress and Daily Drama

      • Consistency towards building your Legacy

Applications Close June 1, 2022
*Trip Dates will be scheduled to accommodate both Client and Alex's schedules

This is for you if:

  • You are looking for a coach that will not just tell you what you want to hear

  • You want and need straight talk, direct, bold, and consequential feedback

  • You want someone who won't accept any excuses

  • You are unwilling to put actually enjoying your life on the back burner any longer

  • You realize a great life isn't built on success in one area, and you are ready to prioritize all the areas that matter

  • You want a no bullshit, no excuses coach who also loves to have fun and laugh

  • You are ready to invest in yourself and take your life, relationships, and business to the next level

  • You realize that coaching is much cheaper than divorce

  • You see the value and impact that comes with working with a Professionally Trained and Experienced Coach​

  • You are so committed to creating an extraordinary life or shifting the things that don't work, and you won't let not enough money or commitment fears get in your way

  • You are ready to take radical responsibility for your life

  • You know you are capable of more


  • You recognize the impact and value of healthy, empowered relationships and are ready to start creating them

  • You are ready to become an influential leader and effective communicator

This is not for you if:

  • You are unwilling to invest in yourself, your life, or your growth

  • You are attached to being right about why things are the way they are

  • You'd rather spend money on your impending divorce than in investing in improving yourself, your communication, and shifting what doesn't work in your relationship to create a happy marriage


  • You believe money equals success and happiness

  • You are more inclined to complain or look for what's wrong that create opportunities or see what might be possible

  • You think your family and loved ones must take a backseat to work, or success will never be possible​

  • You are way too macho or sensitive to hear someone give you bold feedback

  • You think you are just the way you are and won't be able to change

  • You are looking for a quick bandaid fix, not a lasting transformation

  • You just want to check achievement boxes and don't care about creating real enjoyment, presence, and fulfillment in your life

  • You believe a powerful legacy is built based on the paper you stack and the accolades you collect

  • You don't believe in yourself


Applications Close June 1, 2022
*Trip Dates will be scheduled to accommodate both Client and Alex's schedules

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  • Is this a men's only retreat?
  • What if I change my mind, can I get a refund?
    There are no refunds. The purpose of the application and connecting with Bob and Alex is to determine if this retreat will be a good fit. Alex & Bob will also evaluate if they believe you are a good fit for this retreat. With limited spots both parties are making a commitment. After the agreement is made, there are no refunds, and Alex & Bob will be fully committed to you through the process and would expect you to also be fully engaged.
  • What forms of payment are excepted?
    Zelle Bank Transfers Venmo Credit Cards Cash & Checks are also accepted
  • How do I know that I will get results?
    Results are never guaranteed. Results are determined by the commitment and willingness of the Client. Alex and Bob take coaching and the transformation of their clients seriously and with the utmost importance. For over 15 combined years of experience, Alex and Bob's client base has been word of mouth and referral driven, so supporting their clients to success is 100% to their benefit to ensure his business grows.
  • What am I responsible for?
    Purchasing your airline tickets and transportation to the retreat house. Provide Bob & Alex with your airline ticket itinerary. Filling out all paperwork within 48 hours of signing. Choosing your payment plan and making a payment to reserve your spot. Bring own clothing for different experiences, work, dinner, working out, outdoor activities (hiking, sports, pool, etc)
  • What is the difference between Coaching & Therapy?
    Coaching is not therapy in disguise. Coaching is designed to help ambitious achievers meet the outcomes that will bring them success and fulfillment in any and all areas of life. It is future focused. How do we move you from where you are now to where you want to be. Therapy, also called counseling or psychotherapy, is a long-term process in which a client works with a healthcare professional to diagnose and resolve problematic beliefs, addictions, behaviors, traumas, relationship issues, feelings and sometimes physical responses. Therapy is pasted based and focus on event, moments, feelings, and behaviors, and past traumas to heal, repair and improve relationships and work through painful feelings to support someone in the present. Coaching, a client works with a coach to clarify goals and identify obstacles and problematic behaviors in order to create action plans to achieve desired results. Coaching is a present to future conversation. We relate to you as whole, complete, and capable of creating the life and experience you desire.
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