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Coaching Men: Overcoming Skepticism and Unlocking Personal Growth

"My husband is skeptical about working with a coach."

I've heard this before. And to be honest, I was highly skeptical about coaches before I hired my first coach. I thought they were super peppy, overly enthusiastic, kinda lame, and so ra ra about life it made me kinda sick. Funny, I was unhappy and felt pretty stuck, yet I was judging. Then I met a few, and what did I notice? Most of the coaches I met were a lot happier than I was, and they were more successful in various areas of their lives than I was.

This piqued my interest.

Coaching Men

How Coaching Can Help You Level Up Your Life

Why do successful and unsuccessful men hire me? Because the results are undeniable. From increased confidence and productivity to improved relationships and overall well-being. And yes, there is the investment of time and money, which may seem daunting at first, but it is always worth it in the end, often because my client share they make more money than they ever have.

Here are just a few of the many ways that men can benefit from coaching and personal development:

  • Increased confidence: One of the most common benefits of coaching is increased confidence. When you work with me, you can explore your strengths and weaknesses, identify your goals, and develop a plan to achieve them. You get clear on your truth, purpose, and commitments and learn to live in integrity with the man you say you are. This not only feels good, but it has you show up more assertive and confident. This process can help you see yourself in a new light and believe in your abilities.

  • Improved productivity: Coaching can also help you to improve your productivity. When you have a clear vision for your life and a plan to achieve your goals, you are more likely to be motivated, committed, and focused. This can lead to increased success in both your personal and professional life.

  • Better relationships: My clients also report vast improvements in their relationships. Learning to communicate effectively, resolve conflict, and build trust makes you more likely to have healthy and fulfilling relationships. This can include relationships with your partner, children, friends, and colleagues.

  • Overall well-being: Finally, coaching with me will support you in improving your overall well-being. You will likely be happy and fulfilled when working towards your goals and living a life aligned with your values. This can lead to improved physical and mental health and a greater sense of purpose and meaning in life.

Coaching or personal development can be a great place to start if you want to make a positive change in your life. The benefits are numerous, and the investment is always worth it.

Here are a few tips for finding a coach or program that is right for you:

  • Do your research: Many types of coaches and personal development programs are available, so it is essential to do your research and find one that is a good fit for you.

  • Ask for recommendations: Talk to your friends, family, and colleagues to see if they have any recommendations.

  • Interview potential coaches: Once you have found a few potential coaches, schedule interviews with them to get to know them and see if they are a good fit for you.

  • Trust your gut: Ultimately, the most important thing is finding a coach or program you feel comfortable with and believe will help you achieve your goals.

If you're interested in exploring what a coaching partnership looks like, reach out, and let's set up a free discovery call. You have nothing to lose...well, except your excuses. I won't tolerate those.

Opportunities to work with Alex, for you or the men in your lives!

1. The Torch: A Weekly Virtual Men’s Group & Community

This is a no-brainer, super low commitment way for any growth-minded men to dip their toe in (for just $50/month). Seriously, join us or get your partners, friends, brothers, fathers, etc. in here!!

For an hour every week (but with the expectation of joining at least 2 calls per month), men from all over the world who want to become better partners, fathers, leaders, or just better versions of themselves, connect in a safe space to share and unload their stresses, burdens, and challenges, without judgment or advice.

Alex and his business partner Bob share mini-lessons on empowering topics like mindset and healthy masculinity and then hold space, celebrate honest sharing, and help the men to set intentions in their lives.

Additionally, all members get access to a private online community to share wins, give and get support and advice and build new relationships with other men.

Here is all of the info + the next steps to sign up; if not for you please share with the men in your life!

2. The Alchemy of Men Retreat - coming up June 7-11 in Fairview, Utah.

This is for the man who would likely never go on a retreat but is interested in personal and professional growth, accomplishing business goals, becoming better partners and parents, and creating brotherhood with other growth-minded men.

For 4 days and 4 Nights, men will enjoy:

-Meals by a New York 5-Star Chef

-A 10,000 sq foot house with sauna, jacuzzi, and cold plunge

-Surrounded by nature

-Powerful work around creating peace, connection, purpose, and clarity in their lives

-Private Rooms, Shared Rooms, and even a Tent Option (for the Outdoorsman) are available, at a range of investment levels.

For more info checkout

If you or the men in your life have questions about any of the above, just email

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