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The Power of Masculinity Unleashed: A Wedding Week Reflection

One of my favorite parts of my Wedding Week a couple of weeks ago was seeing how the masculine showed up!

The range and possibility of a man when he is free to be a whole version of a human.

The men in my life and I showed up open-hearted, with joy, play, strength, spirituality, creativity, love, tenderness, and power.


I saw men party with endless tequila shots and other men party with dance and laughter. Neither way is right nor better than another.

I saw men hug and embrace each other with tenderness, kindness, and love, and men bro out, connecting in silly, playful, and grounded ways.

I experienced deep spirituality via rituals like the Temazcal & Rapé Ceremonies. Incorporating setting intentions, saging, meditation, and with some of the same men, experience the power of our strength and bodies in the Jungle Gym.

I saw father and son love, brotherly love, brotherhood, friendship, and community expand and be created through the men.

I saw and experienced tears of joy and sadness, love and heartbreak, celebration and letting go.

This is possible for men when we open our hearts and minds and allow in more than society, has traditionally permitted us to feel and experience.

When we allow our feminine to enhance and expand our masculine, we get to experience this life fully, we get all of it, and when we get all of it, we get to thrive within ourselves, with our partners, and with each other!

All men can experience this level of joy, peace, ease, abundance, love, play, spirit, connection, and power.

And it requires getting out of our traditionally defined comfort zones of what it means to be a man and all the ways we’ve been conditioned to be the men we are.

I want this level of freedom and joy for all men!

Opportunities to work with Alex, for you or the men in your lives!

1. The Torch: A Weekly Virtual Men’s Group & Community

This is a no-brainer, super low commitment way for any growth-minded men to dip their toe in (for just $50/month). Seriously, join us or get your partners, friends, brothers, fathers, etc. in here!!

For an hour every week (but with the expectation of joining at least 2 calls per month), men from all over the world who want to become better partners, fathers, leaders, or just better versions of themselves, connect in a safe space to share and unload their stresses, burdens, and challenges, without judgment or advice.

Alex and his business partner Bob share mini-lessons on empowering topics like mindset and healthy masculinity, and then hold space, celebrate honest sharing, and help the men to set intentions in their lives.

Additionally, all members get access to a private online community to share wins, give and get support and advice and build new relationships with other men.

Here is all of the info + the next steps to sign up; if not for you please share with the men in your life!

2. The Alchemy of Men Retreat - coming up June 7-11 in Fairview, Utah.

This is for the man who would likely never go on a retreat, but is interested in personal and professional growth, accomplishing business goals, becoming better partners and parents, and creating brotherhood with other growth-minded men.

For 4 days and 4 Nights, men will enjoy:

-Meals by a New York 5-Star Chef

-A 10,000 sq foot house with sauna, jacuzzi, and cold plunge

-Surrounded by nature

-Powerful work around creating peace, connection, purpose, and clarity in their lives

-Private Rooms, Shared Rooms, and even a Tent Option (for the Outdoorsman) are available, at a range of investment levels.

For more info checkout

If you or the men in your life have questions about any of the above, just email

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